Friday, December 19, 2014

Yes or No - To be or Not to be, Pre-Martial

I am going to write on this topic casually just like straight from the heart whether I win the contest or not. Pre-Martial sex won't mostly suit for Indian Culture since it is against all religions customs that made thousands years back and followed accordingly despite few does against act from long. Whenever we talk about Pre-Martial sex we just pay attention or think only on girls against religions or society’s custom and how about boy who does Pre-Martial sex prior his marriage? Yes, this bias prevails against male vs female on this topic.

Adam and Eve / Stone Age:

If you consider Stone Age from Adam and Eve, God made them as couple and not as Eve is like a Girl friend of Adam but married couple or Eve as Adam’s wife rather different relation or fiction. By accepting this, one can move little ahead with little different custom at the initial stage which we as majority need to agree with our elder’s decision on this scenario.

The next come to our mind is Pre-Marital subject; most of them generally says No to Pre-Marital but will not describe more on why than they follow the customs or elders. Do you think custom made just to stop individual’s happiness on this subject, No, individual can enjoy but with following discipline and custom. If there is no custom and discipline on this subject then there will be no differences among human and animal. 

The toughest thing on individual happiness among this topic is not because of ritual or custom but it is just because of marriage unnecessary additional formalities and costs that unable to bear most of them which create mess up on this easy process. You can simply marry and enjoy the nature to avoid various health, crime and society issues than Pre-martial act. Few guys happy causes angry for many.

Though this subject is like both the sides of the coin, fewer pros and more cons would be there, only very few people who involved would be pleased and the one who come to know about it might be displeased due to such act which is against all law despite mutual involvement.

In general, only very few people might be happy on this (topic/act) but mostly against on Pre-Martial sex whether they do involve or support directly or indirectly. However, I would like to know opinion first from honest and discipline Girls or Women on this topic. You can also know the different opinion from PoonaamUppal's True Love - A Mystical True Love Story on Flipkart. You can also find the discussion on this topic here.

This article is written for YES or NO to Pre-Marital Sex contest in association with IndiBlogger.

Thursday, December 18, 2014

Vacation with naughty kids

There will be no fun during vacation without naughty Kids around, yes, this blessing will be only for those who don’t like to go vacation just couples but kids - whether they are bachelor / spinster or married or old family members, joining kids with you on vacation is like joining additional fun filled holiday experience. Whenever we go for vacation alone without kids is a different taste in different atmosphere than accompanying kids on vacation which filled with lots of memory, eager to go everywhere, ready to buy everything they see as proposal and full of entertainment in a different act of enjoyment.

I was working in RCI (Resort Condominium International) Bangalore, where we used to assist Resort members to book and allot worldwide resorts as per their choice and convenient of holidays as holiday exchange for a week or couple of weeks. The member used to enjoy their vacation and worldwide resorts facilities which they get it in a reasonable price by paying membership fees and maintenance fees as per their convenient. Most of the member used to enjoy with their parents, kids or relatives of members with advance intimations to us etc. They will send their holiday snaps to us which sometime they get gift in return. We used to conduct Holiday contest for members where they used to participate eagerly and get expensive / valuable gift. The star rating for the resorts used to provide by our company.

Since I was working RCI, so I got free membership and possible to take yearly vacation for a week or two to go anywhere in the world and stay in any affiliated resorts. Thus, I went to Goa with my family and kids, stayed in one of the high class affiliated resorts by just paying nominal maintenance fee per day for 1 week which actually nothing more than 1 day room charges for whole one week. The facility was superb, free transportation to/fro Airport/Railway station and beaches, the swimming pool was beautiful and unable to forget our (including kids) swimming experience over there. The foreigners (US and European couples) helped and assisted my kids to swim around, they let them enjoy my kids for a long time in the swimming which my kids never forget for a whole time and they were not ready to come out from the Swimming pool.

Other than this, kids never forgot Paradise boating and entertainment in Goa, they won’t forget Dolphin shows in Goa, they won’t fail to remember Baga beach experience including various places and finally they even won’t forget Miramar beach experience. This happened five years before but kids still recalling whenever such topic arises though these kids have gone various other tourist locations in this 5 years gap. The best part of the enjoyment of kids start before going vacation itself and more over it remains same even more than a week after we returned from holidays.

This article is written for TeddyTravelogues of Club Mahindra contest from IndiBlogger.

Saturday, December 13, 2014

No Achcham…No fear! Those days in my College

Human and other species generally born with fear (Achcham - in Tamil) as one of the instinct among many characteristic or the behavior. Different fears may comes across in different occasions or situations other than fun filled one or sad one or general one. But, which fear makes you more thrill, suspense, new, no idea for solution and many risk filled in including do or die situation alone? How to rise above fear in such circumstances? How to take risk in life to succeed and how to overcome from fear then claim victory which can be of turning point in your life. Read this article for more detail on No fear or No Achcham in our life.

Advice or suggestion can get easily in this world but how about practical risk taking alone without anyone’s support or an idea which involves life or death to reach some target, success and achievement. Only few people will face fear situation and take risky action to get succeed in their lifetime. There is saying that the one who afraid God will not afraid anyone since death is certain which needless to fear for it but live happily and take some steps boldly ‘for the right one or valid one’.

As one of the dialogue from Gabbar Singh, Jo dargaya so margaya! (Dead who feared for, even though he/she live).

I can give many examples on this topic but it is not an easy to write all in one post. Here I will write only one situation for it which I faced in College days.

Courtesy: YouTube/Mounain Deo

There was College election campaign going on within College where some spark happened among two different student / pupil parties where the clashes between them finally about to an end in Principles office. It was unfortunate for the College Principle, well wishers and decent studying student that Principle got head injured due to hitting stone directly on his head which done by one of the student on that group upon Principal compromising between these two parties. That’s it, other surrounded Professors and HoD called the Police department (though their vehicles always used to stand near our college for the sake of college students’ act) and they arrived with little gap as usual. Meanwhile, the clash becomes even more serious before entering by Police group in the premises. I and my friend have to run to the third floor of the college class to hide on this situation where there were thousands of college students who runs on the same time as human tide upon Police entry.

Indian Police control the situation as usual with lathi charge and tear gas for a while. Pin drop silent in the college premises, hard to see bird flying over there. I was thinking of some serious situation since it was my first year study in college where I saw the live situation as such than movie. The area was like a desert for couple of hours. I suddenly thought of my College exam’s fee and its last day. I had to take Demand Draft for it or else I would be disqualified for the upcoming exam, oh God. I discussed with my college class mates and they shouted on me, they said, why you made delay on this since anything at anytime could happen in our college or even sometime in our country like strike, death and so on. Yeah, yeah, yeah.

My heart says go and get it done or else you will be in trouble and my mind says be careful. Only one thing I can do is to face do or die situation on that moment, I have to exit from the college and get the DD then enter the college till College Admin for submitting the DD with ID copy. How, possible for lathi charge to me or tear gas or even possible for sever action from Police that can be of shooting order on the move too. I have to and I have to – my heart says. I remembered God then slowly walked away from friends and passing through open ground and exit way of the college. Many (including Police) were seeing me like a deer walking alone in 200 meters path that is about face any situation right now. Eyes on me, eyes on me and eyes on me by all, including God. Thank God, nothing happened and exits safely and reached the Bank which is very near to my college.

I got a DD within half an hour and enquired the college situation by Bank authorities then I explained them accordingly. Ok, now the situation is again to enter the college with same dangerous atmosphere. Again remembering God and moving slowly from the entry Gate of the College (where Police enquired about me) and explained them softly about last day and DD (shown) to submit. They agreed to enter and slowly moving toward Admin with thrilled situation again, many again looking on me and this time got little confidence since Police conversation taken place just. Yeah, reached 100 meters path so far, still panicked in this pin drop silent atmosphere. Anything could happen.

A group of Police were moving to a different direction of the College which panicked me for a while then still moved on till Admin which came closely. Yeah, I made it, I made it and I reached the Admin and submitted the DD and ID copy to the concern authority. In reply, authority looking on me with angry as I am the only guy who gave him works on this situation. For a safety reason, I stayed few hours nearby College Admin area only till the situation come little calm, yes, they announced “indefinite college strike” which is really bad for the one whom studying well or who doesn’t involve in unnecessary act etc.

However, I won the day – did my work, no fear and no tear. No Achcham, Achchai meeri Uchchai Thodu...yeah.

This article is written for Mountain Dew Happy hour contest from IndiBlogger.

Saturday, December 6, 2014

Remembering those days in college

Those days like a dream to reach the College due to various reasons, one of them is study, though the main aim will be studying further once we passed out either in 10th class or 12th class to reach college. But, we have again different reasons to reach the college beside study, it is just like an entertainment, new place after a long gap from same school study, show the world that you become youth by entering college and possible to get revenue in future from business or work once college study over in very near future, dreaming world and so on.

However, we need to think on this topic about two different views, one is college perspective and the other one is student perspective. I have stated here both. Some state’s education pattern says that the College entry is once we passed out 10th class to reach the Junior College like Pre-University Course (PUC – 10+2) and some state’s education pattern says that the College entry would be once we passed out 12th class to reach the College for Bachelor’s Degree by choosing related subject.

However, as per recalling, I would like to state something about the college days when I passed out in 12th standard with first class marks / percentage (fortunately) to enter the Bachelor’s degree. In general, student has to face lot of new challenges beside dream, dream and dream upon entering the college. This includes day dream, night dream and the future dream in unknown atmosphere. Other than this, student will be on teenage with glamour, realizing reality or truth compare to childhood or early days where everyone or everything was good, old school mates separated, future or scope thoughts, new atmosphere, new faces as college mates, lack of understanding, solo on ground, ragging by seniors, disappointment on course selection, disappointment on instructor or professor or even Principal sometime, hatred on class projects, possible for new and useless love, roaming with friends, tour and travel, student election campaign, delay for class, nothing to worry on exam despite not studied, love with arrears, love to pass the time including in cafeteria and so on. We just happy to pass 3 to 4 years in the college whether we achieved our main aim or not but we were ready to achieve rest of the things.

I was afraid to enter the college due to ragging than any others; I tried to avoid going to college for first few days after Admission. Later, I had been to college regularly though I got struck with minor ragging which I could lose nothing but Rs 20 and some question from senior to answer where HoD (Head of the Department) entered upon. He, hee, heeee. My college was famous in two things, one is ragging, and the other one is the college surrounded with reputed girls’ colleges and girls’ secondary and higher secondary schools which helped our collegians as an entertainment, fun and even sometime love source for few (I will tell you later about me). Now, you have to identify my college or its name where I would have studied or passed the time – he hee heee. You have to understand that study is different in such atmosphere, so, if you are solo and interested in study then doesn't matter, you can study and pass out – it is just like it is in your own hand to pass or fail to get Degree, as usual. At the same time, we used to see the release of the movie related to college during entering or joining the college, as same as, for e.g. Jo Jeetha Wohi Sikander movie and eager to watch it despite getting from black ticket.

During college days, we sometime used to think that we are broadminded or well matured compare to our parents or elders or seniors around, sometime we used to even think that we are master in teaching than the college instructor or principal though not studied as we supposed to be. Sometime it became true in few cases but not for all.

Now education, our country education system is little different and late updates on eco-system or international educational eco-system. How? When I was in abroad a decade ago, I heard about B.Sc Accounts subject (remember - BSc Accounts) degree in their colleges from well known countries, I surprised on Degree title and realized that this will not come to India unless we spend few decades and education pattern changes here slowly by Ministry level which they will know it first before me. Also, our citizen will laugh and surprise when we talk early about BSc Accounts. Why BSc Accounts? It is not related to Bachelor of Science? Finally, after a decade it came to India following western education pattern by Indian Govt, which our current student follows too for various other degrees and education level.

This post is my entry for 'My College Diary' contest held by travel blog My Yatra Diary in collaboration with'.

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Friday, December 5, 2014

Go anywhere and stay for less, from Airbnb

I am actually one of the travel lovers and would like to roam all over the world. I had been too few foreign countries beside local trips in India. The International trip was to Singapore (tour visit), Brunei (tour visit), Bahrain (tour visit), UAE (tour visit), Saudi Arabia (for work), and Kuwait (for short-term work). These all happened few years back and would like to still roam in India and other foreign countries when time permits. However, I won't give up to travel anywhere in the future.

When I recall the past, some of the best trip in India was, Shimla, Jammu, Sri Nagar, Kolkata, Delhi, Mumbai, Munnar, Goa, Bangalore, Chennai, Hyderabad, Mysore and other small and less known tourist places, on.

Wherever we go, the important one other than travel is of unique accommodation and suitable food, or boarding and lodging or bed and bread beside a wonderful sightseeing, experience and remembrance for many years as I recalled this one. I used to see trip photos which was taken long back to recall the older excitement and happy days. Still you can enjoy it, and age doesn't matter to go around. 

There are few travel companies that assist online for such trip and to get unique accommodation with lesser price. One of them is Airbnb. All these fun together, Airbnb connects people to unique travel experiences, at any price point, in more than 34,000 cities and 190+ countries. Why don't you utilize this facility?

To avail the facilities at Airbnb and its booking through online or from a mobile phone, you can visit Airbnb booking. I too have selected few foreign location and two local locations as follows.

Ireland: This is one of the best places to visit due to various reason and one of them is naturally beautiful. It has various sightseeing and soft people around.

New Zealand: You can either visit Australia or New Zealand which is great to be there as long as you would like to realize natural rich atmosphere.

Luxemburg: International travelers never forget to enjoy the beauty of Luxemburg. This is one of the best hospitality and tourist places in the world which real traveler never misses the opportunity to enjoy.

Kodaikanal: Although it is famous location in India for coolest place and try to stay over there during Summer, this is one of the best location in southern India to experience lush green and hill station with beautiful atmosphere.

Hyderabad is actually a different city to visit, it is unlike some peace and quiet tourist location but it is a city which contains some of the historical places, architecture, mixed with nature and most importantly growing IT sector which called Silicon Valley of India.

You may also register with Airbnb to enjoy the holidays with very low expenses. Ref

This article is written for Airbnb contest in association with IndiBlogger.

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Don’t Circus on road

Whenever I talk with friends and relatives on the topic of Road safety, I will remember few bitter incident and accident that happened in front of me and would like not to disclose here except hint. A small rose was smashed by giant stone in front of me while travelling on the bus, no one could help it at that moment for that rose and other stone which crashed, I was able to see it since I was sitting on the front seat which is near the bus driver.

I was unable to forget for few long days, unable to have food on time and often discussed with near and dear about it, and still I used to recall it once such topic arises. It was a horrible experience though a small school rose was not my relatives but unknown rose which didn’t grown as it is supposed to be and big lose for their family members. There are so many incident as such for my native / city people and those were behind my seen but still painful whenever I recall it. Oh God.

Drive(r) with care

Whenever I drive the vehicle on road or while traffic, the first one is remembering God, the second one is utmost care about who is approaching me to hit my vehicle / car rather than whom I am going to hit anyone. However, overall vehicle care, driving care and vigilant is there for which I suppose to drive well without hitting anyone following the driving guideline and fasten seat belt etc. Doing silly mistake in a second can harm many like attending mobile calls can cause severe damage including life threat.

If you want to drive vehicle upside down, wheeling, jumping, racing, showing and stunning etc. then you may join at any nearest Circus or bike racing center or formula one group etc. There are some expert who could assist you on this and I am afraid you won’t show such talent over there since you can do it at Road show only which can kill you and some on goers.

Courtesy: Nissan
Ten Commandments for Road safety:

1.     Traffic Authority should be vigilant – round the clock
2.     Long Signal process must not irritate travelers
3.     Highways shall not have speed breaker or hump 
4.     Driver shall have all valid papers to drive the vehicle
5.     Driver must know the road and driving discipline 
6.     Driver shall observe the side and rear mirrors beside front area
7.     No health issues including poor vision, cardiac, drowsy and madness
8.     Speed thrills but kills adherence, follow fasten seat belt term
9.     Fitness certificate, Insurance, Emission, DL and so on.
10.   Driver shall not use Phone on driving or stop vehicle to use calls.

Wish you all a Happy Journey – Bon Voyage.

This article is written for NissanIndia NSDF (Nissan Saftey Driving Forum) contest in association with IndiBlogger. Thanks to all visitors.

Sunday, November 30, 2014

Beyond the dirt – where else we can reach

There are lots of buzz around on ‘Clean India’ campaign and it looks like we however need to get up at this moment to make clean our home, street, road and country. Anyhow, the main concern over here is, make it clean India understanding individual responsibility and contribution toward this campaign, at least. It is better late than never, as we know face is the index of the mind, thus cleanliness shows an individual status to country status.

What we learnt in these days is horrible due to unclean habit and atmosphere which affected overall nature cycle and destroyed many natural resources. Where are those birds and its quantity that we used to see couple of decades ago? Due to unclean, impure, contaminated, dirty, infected, grimy, polluted and unhygienic habit and its atmosphere, we bear many losses which are unaccountable. Disease spread in such a way that there won’t have any medicine except anti-biotic as temporary solution for it. What else?

This campaign would like to wake up those who are not ready to get up on time or not really interested toward clean atmosphere, this is especially for those who are not ready keep clean surrounding at home first. Other than individual contribution, team work plays very important role on everything, only discussion and performance matters. As said, team work means ‘less me and more we’ and team work means dream work. What we do in our team work is (there is saying) as below which failed in everything rather success.

This is a story about four people named Everybody, Somebody, Anybody and Nobody. 

There was an important job to be done and Everybody was sure that Somebody would do it. 

Anybody could have done it, but Nobody did it. 

Somebody got angry about that, because it was Everybody’s job. 

Everybody thought Anybody could do it, but Nobody realized that Everybody wouldn't do it. 

It ended up that Everybody blamed Somebody when Nobody did what Anybody could have done it.

The real story goes like that. I think people (except few) don’t take personal responsibility for general success on social services because they want others to do the work for them. To get work done and success on my effort (no personal or self boast over here), I tried to start to clean Bathroom at home which is very small, this one also done due to family member ill at home. However, co-incidence would work sometime while such (Clean) campaign is going on altogether. The next one is, beginning of cleaning home and nearby atmosphere though there are many commercial items help to do for cleaning task but we need little effort to keep clean surrounding which could help to avoid various diseases and threats.

The next one is, I was going on nearby street where I observed that sometime garbage cleaning and sometime not from the authority. Here, one is authority shall do it and if they fail to do for any unknown reason then we shall request and remind them to do so in a right manner. You can see the below photos where once the trash / junk was huge, only one initiative and step from me (common people) to nearest Municipality helps to clean garbage regularly. We will go with Banega Swachh India and its campaign.

This article is written for Clean India campaign on Swachh India from IndiBlogger.

Friday, November 28, 2014

Ab Mai Bolega - My Voice to Clean India campaign

I remember four things whenever I read or hear about ‘clean’ topic. One is, almost every religion says neat and clean is very important beside our routine practice, the second one is Singapore and my visit over there during Apr 2001, the third one is Saudi Arabian Airlines Catering unit in Riyadh and the fourth one is Tamil veteran actor Kamala Hasan.

What does religion says about Clean:

I can say no religion forget to says about clean, as clean is half Imaan (belief) and the rest half belief is individual soul’s choice toward almighty. I feel sad myself also that we are not following our own basic principle on this, fully or partially.

What does Singapore says about Clean:

I remember one incident while one evening walking on the Orchard road in Singapore in April 2001 (a decade ago that too), I once spitted aside on walking over there and immediately I afraid and remember the country’s different strict rule and disciplinary action compare with back home, though I was safe over there. As you may know that making bad atmosphere or creating pollution in Singapore is against their law and strict disciplinary action will be taken for the concern. So, each human being carry their responsibility set by the nation thus they are in a good atmosphere including neat and clean surrounding.

What does Saudia Airlines Catering Riyadh unit says for clean:

Though it is a five star hotel level unit, thus it is normal that one can find neat and clean nearby. That is not the surprise here, the astonishing thing is the one which this unit create and practice everyone to be neat and clean beside some disciplinary measure when required. One example is, if you have a long hair or good hair style and working in Admin than Food production area which is far located, still Hygiene Inspector will roam, monitor, catch and warn you first to cut the hair (if so) as per company policy, if fail to do so then disciplinary action would be taken. 

As usual, food production area will have so many rules for handling food that can be found herein India’s five star or three star hotels too and forget this one in local hotels. Beside this, the Managers and above posts (mostly Saudi citizens) of each department will monitor for neat and cleanliness in their respective area, they will handle alone some cleaning task in the office premises and make changes the office atmosphere often as simple look and nice decoration.

What Kamala Hasan says for Clean topic:

I don’t know whether you are aware or not about actor Kamala Hasan and his discipline, India’s PM is taking clean initiative now but this veteran actor is talking and taking ‘clean’ initiative since few decades. He always used to give some hint or message or a song or even a film for only ‘clean’ topic.

So, when an actor can take an initiative for a long term on ‘clean’ India with social motivation, why individual shall not take an initiative on this, which is every citizen’s responsible too. We have 24 hours a day; we spend almost 24 hours a day in every other task, why shall not we spend at least half an hour to one hour just to keep cleaning in domestic and nearby area or outside, as responsible. 

Note: Starting from now, I will try to clean my home first and nearby area next.

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